If the hostess isn't having fun, no one's having fun.  And after all if you can't enjoy your own party what's the point of having one?  Sometimes though, that's easier said than done.  My secret for enjoying your own soiree: 

"Plan like hell.  Then let it go."

This sign shares good advice, too:  If you think something's going to be amazing, it probably will be.  How about you?  What's your hostess secret?  Please share in the comments below.

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"Use the good china for breakfast."